I made an observation about my life yesterday while in discussion with a coaching client.
“I don’t do anything in my life today with people I don’t want to be around”
In reflection of my past, I remember I hated going to work and going places because of the people I had to be around.
Were these people and places the problem or was I the problem?
I was the problem and I am the solution.
Stop looking externally for reasons for your unhappiness. If you want something different, do and be different, take ownership of your life, own all of the good and bad.